They say that it is easy to move on of you want to. Is it easy? Thinking that the memories will not happen again ? That everyday you will wake up sad because your love has found new love? Is it easy to accept that you are not meant to be? Is it easy to find new one if your heart is taken from someone?
In the first part of moving on, you have to lessen the communication. When you still have communication, the more the feelings hold back. When we say lessen the communication, we don't mean that we have to stop the communication. We don't need to stop the communication. Like others, after they moved on, they became good friends with that someone who made their hearts special for a short period of time.
Second part of moving on, is throwing all the memories. For example, to throw the memories, don't go to the places that reminds you of your memories together. It's okay to reminisce, but don't hold your feelings back. when you say you want to move on, Move on! Second example, keep all the stuff or things that you accepted from him/her. Because if you hold or even see that things, there's a possibility that all the memories would come back. Sometimes, the feelings would come back too. Like pictures, stuff toys, etc. If it is needed to help you move on, throw it!
Letting love go, is never easy. But if you love him/her, set them free. Because when we learn the art of letting go, we have to let go of everything. The moments that you cherished together, the promises you once made, and the love that you shared together. When you let go all of that things, we can say that you have officially moved on.
When you moved on, be happy! Always enjoy life. Love doesn't need to be found, it will just come and make you heart feel special. Be contented of what you have for now, and for the rest of the days until you find your someone that will give you memories, love, and moments that you will cherish together.
There's always a reason why we have to move on. When we have to say goodbye to the feelings that we have wanted to stay forever.
